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He described them as kindhearted people who would do anything for him-“except discuss sex.” Every morning, he said, his mother got dressed in her closet, and he never witnessed either of his parents exhibiting an interest in sex. His parents, hardworking German-Americans, had had a farm. He explained that he had met Donna in high school in a farming town called Ault, about sixty-five miles outside of Denver, and that the two had been married since 1960. “My wife, Donna, and I have been careful never to let her in on our secret, and the same thing goes, of course, for our children,” he said.Īs Foos drove us to the motel, he took the opportunity to sketch out the story of his life for me. He added that, later on, he would take me up to the special attic viewing platform, but only after his mother-in-law, Viola, who helped out in the motel office, had gone to bed. “We’ll put you in one of the rooms that doesn’t provide me with viewing privileges,” he said, with a lighthearted grin. He had neatly trimmed dark hair, and, behind horn-rimmed glasses, he projected a friendly expression befitting an innkeeper.Īfter we had exchanged courtesies, I accepted his invitation to be a guest at his motel for a few days.
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He wore a tan jacket and an open-collared dress shirt that seemed a size small for his heavily muscled neck. In his mid-forties, Foos was hazel-eyed, around six feet tall, and slightly overweight. My first impression was that this amiable stranger resembled many of the men I had flown with from Phoenix. “Welcome to Denver,” he said, waving in his left hand the note I had mailed him. Two weeks later, when I approached the luggage carrousel, I spotted a man holding out his hand and smiling. Also, the opening line of my 1969 book about the Times, “The Kingdom and the Power,” was: “Most journalists are restless voyeurs who see the warts on the world, the imperfections in people and places.” Could such a man be a reliable source? Still, as I reread the letter, I reflected that his “research” methods and motives bore some similarity to my own in “Thy Neighbor’s Wife.” I had, for example, kept notes while managing massage parlors in New York and while mingling with swingers at the Sandstone nudist commune in Southern California (one key difference: the people I observed and reported on had given me their consent). And I was deeply unsettled by the way he had violated his customers’ trust and invaded their privacy. As a nonfiction writer who insists on using real names in articles and books, I knew that I could not accept his condition of anonymity.
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Presently I cannot reveal my identity because of my business interests, but will be revealed when you can assure me that this information would be held in complete confidence.Īfter reading this letter, I put it aside for a few days, undecided on whether to respond. He went on to say that although he had been wanting to tell his story, he was “not talented enough” as a writer and had “fears of being discovered.” He then invited me to correspond with him in care of a post-office box and suggested that I come to Colorado to inspect his motel operation:
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My main objective in wanting to provide you with this confidential information is the belief that it could be valuable to people in general and sex researchers in particular. Sexually, I have witnessed, observed and studied the best first hand, unrehearsed, non-laboratory sex between couples, and most other conceivable sex deviations during these past 15 years. I have seen most human emotions in all their humor and tragedy carried to completion. The Seventies, later part, brought another sexual deviation forward, namely, group sex, which I took great interest in watching . . . Homosexuality, of which I had little interest, but still watched to determine motivation and procedure. Lesbianism, of which I made a particular study. . . . Wives who cheat on their husbands and visa versa. Couples who aren’t married, but live together. Married couples traveling from state to state, either on business or vacation. The businessman who takes his secretary to a motel during the noon hour, which is generally classified as “hot sheet” trade in the motel business. These individuals were from every walk of life. And compiled interesting statistics on each, i.e., what was done what was said their individual characteristics age & body type part of the country from where they came and their sexual behavior.